BROKEN

Is it true that after happiness is sadness? That the amount of your happiness today will also be the amount of your sadness after? If that’s the case, no one would prefer to be very happy.

 

But in love, sometimes, that thing/issue exists. That after being so happy today, you would feel so much pain tomorrow. But that is based on who will leave, who will stay, who can pass the tests and who does the fault.

Being in relationship brings happiness, sadness, headache, pain, etc. but usually, a couple who are in a relationship is most of the time happy. That’s why many relationships turns into a long-term relationship or what we are called marriage. As the quote says, “the moment you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of your life to begin immediately.”

But why does pain is the twin of love? That if you fall in love, you must be ready to experience pain. I thought maybe even if you don’t intend to hurt someone, you may do it unnoticeable. Being hurt emotionally may compare to the hurt we feel because of a physical wound. It is very hard to experience pain especially being rejected and being left by the one you love. There are many reasons why these things occur but one thing for sure is a great pain will be felt after.

 

It’s easy to fall in love but moving on from someone you love is hard. It’s as hard as what suicidal person feels. A great pain which is like your heart is breaking into pieces literally. Your life will change, from the way you wake up in the morning until the way you sleep at night. No one can understand how much pain you feel thus you just want to give up. You feels like there is no tomorrow, no future for the both of you.

The hardest part of being hurt is the fact that you need to move on and continue living your life. Nothing will happen if you continue to sulk inside your room. An advice of how to move on I remembered most is this; “No one really forgets, they just used being hurt, and if they are used to it, that’s the time they accept the fact that the one they love is not really meant for them.”